I won't even TRY to explain this as a healthy breakfast. I won't. It's also not NEW. But some days, just call for it still.
Ladies and Gentlemen...BISCUITS AND GRAVY.
Billy loves gravy. BUT HATES THE IDEA OF MAKING IT WITH GREASE. Any kind of grease. Bacon grease. Sausage grease. Broccoli grease. It doesn't matter. He's not a fan of grease.
So, instead, I brown some sausage, DRAIN IT and use this...
Mix it with water, and wal-lah! Deliciousness.
Billy got some disappointing news this week at work.
We aren't strangers to disappointment. Neither are you, are you?
Truthfully, we could write a book on it.
Most significantly though is what you decide to do with it -- and even MORE significantly -- what you decide to do with it as a couple.
We gave ourselves a few moments to catch our breath. We contacted people who cared. Who cared about the situation and more importantly -- who care about us no matter what our situation.
Do you have those people in your life? If not, it would benefit you to stop everything RIGHT NOW and seek them out. Everyone, EVERYONE, needs friends.
We made a decision to be patient with each other's reaction.
We spoke truth over each other and our situation.
And, we found reasons to quietly celebrate our life -- in our small corner of the universe -- just for a few moments, just the too of us -- even in the midst of disappointment.
We recounted what we had learned. Talked about the feed back from others we were FORTUNATE to get -- even if it didn't feel great. How that makes us stronger candidates the next go around. We talked about how we'd pleased God with right hearts (even if we'd had stupid heads) and that we were happy with our life as it was. We would try to fix the "stupid head" problem, and we restated our resolve to continue trusting God in all situations. Our conclusion is always the same. Our life is one amazing, scary, wild, awesome ride. And we are fortunate to be living it.
People, even in difficult seasons, you can find reasons to celebrate. Even if it's a quiet celebration. Even in the midst of disappointment and sadness. The human heart is great and vast. Capable of joy and pain -- all at the same time.
Just look. The reasons to celebrate are right there, in the midst of your real actual life. For couples, shared moments of gratitude and joy will not only ease disappointment (until it comes back around again), it will fuel your marriage and make it stronger.
Finally, a nod to wives when it's your husbands disappointment. There are some things only you can do. Be generous.
Today, I speak over you the same words I am currently speaking over the RamFam...
"Yahweh your Elohim is with you.
He is a hero who saves you.
He happily rejoices over you,
renews you with His love,
and celebrates over you with shouts of joy."
Blessings and Peace,